It's that simple as Arnold Schwarzenegger says. It's your vision, your goal, something you badly want to be, do or have.

Many people are too busy to take time to ponder. They don't have a long term vision. That's why most people drift along the way. They don't even know where they really want to go. No wonder why they are unhappy.

Do you have a vision for you?

If you know what you really want, the life is easy.

Most people don't know what they want. They are too busy to think about it most of the time. They are busy to just survive. Then, the next thing they ask is to raise the level of survival. They want a nicer car, fancy house and so on. Those are NOT what they want. Those are something they think they want.

Ultimately, if you don't pursue what you really want, you are going to die with despair. 

What do we know about human capacity?

Almost none! We don't know our own capacity. So, we try to teach children only what we know. This is the education system we have globally.

We think we are doing something good to our children. That's true for some part. But We might be getting in the way of our children because we don't really know their potential.

So, we educate them as we think good.

There are two models mentioned in the video. One is very simple and the other is a bit complicate or advanced.

Personally, I am not fully satisfied with only the first model, which is easy to grasp for all. The second model is somehow going beyond the concept of positive and negative.

'Think positive' is a good strategy for most of the time. However, negativity is not that bad to have once in a while.

Guy Kawasaki is one of my favorite speakers. Even though he is often regarded as a speaker of the technical field, he is more philosophical than that. Actually, he shares deep wisdom with the audience. And that is what attracts me.

In this Ted talk, he shares his wisdom taught by his father. That part is the most valuable information for some of the audience, which includes me. We are stuck because we choose to unconsciously. The solution is very simple. Get over it!

No need to say anything. Just let your center align with the person you admire. Then, you feel something. Trying to understand by your head doesn't help. Absorb without thinking!

What you desire desires you. What you seek seeks you. Just let it go. It will come for sure at some point. Forget about when. You may feel never reaching. So, what happen if it doesn't? Quit what you are doing?

There is no quitting if you really want it. It doesn't matter if it arrives or not. The things you are doing right now matters, not the destination.

If you are left handed, you may be trained to use your right hand. It depends on when you were born. When I was a child, my fellow friends who were left handed were forced to train their right hands. Why? Because it's sometimes inconvenient to be left handed. Right handed is the 'normal' way.

If your brain works differently than that of  'normal' people, you probably experience many troubles in schools or workplaces. Because you cannot do certain things like others do. People may try to fix your brain.

The question is 'Is your brain broken'?

It is a very intriguing way of seeing it. And it is true. Life is here to challenge us.

We need to find a way to be happy even though life challenges us all the time. And current situation is teaching us exactly the thing we need to learn.

Question is 'Do we get it?' Maybe some do. And some don't.

It's not easy to think of it as a lesson. Yet, it is a lesson we have to take. All of us at the same time all over the world are taking the lesson.

One of the possible outcomes after overcoming this pandemic is that we are one, that it's stupid to fight each other. Everything looks trivial compare to this pandemic. Everything will be reevaluated after this pandemic.

Probably, people will be going back to their old way of thinking once this pandemic subsides. Because our thoughts are habitual, automatic most of the time. However, if we learn something from this pandemic, we can change our thoughts and then behaviors. "We are one." is the basic idea. 

"Why does this happen to me?"

This is a common response of those who gets something bad for no reason. And this time, it has happened to all of us on this planet. The Pandemic.

The situation is real and we need to cope with it. That's one thing. You can still think of it as a challenge God gives us. If you don't like the word, you can replace it with the universe. Whatever you call it, there is no difference.
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