I am Stuck too.

Sometimes, I am in a situation where I am supposed to offer some tips for people who are stuck. Then, I would say something like this.

"Make clear what you really want. Set a goal and work on it."

It sounds very simple. Yes, very simple but it doesn't mean it's easy. I set my goal more than eight years ago. And I have been working on it. But for the last several months, I feel stuck. What should I do?

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I am confident about what I really want. That's good. But it just seems still far away after spending more than eight years. Maybe I could have done better. Maybe my goal is way far fetched. Maybe I dreamed too big.

After having those kind of thoughts, I noticed those thoughts didn't serve me at all. So, I dropped them. They were useless. Then, I changed the direction of my thoughts.

As far as I know what I really want, nothing matters in the end. It doesn't matter how long it takes. It doesn't matter my dream is too big or too small. It doesn't matter at all. If you know what you really want, it's a done deal.

So, my advice to me would be: If you know what you really want, nothing matters. Don't hurry!

Mental hurry comes from fear. What you want wants you too. So, you don't need to hurry.