Low Expectations VS High Expectations

"The secret of success is having low expectations".

Do you agree? 

For me, the joy of living is the hope of getting what I want. So, having low expectations is not my way. Having high expectations IS.

As the video says, our expectations are basis of our actions. So, the first step for success is having high expectations.

Many people refuse to have high expectation because of the potential of disappointments. If don't expect anything, you don't get disappointed. That's true maybe. However, there is no excitement for avoiding disappointments.

To eliminate the potential disappointments, you need to detach from the outcome while maintaining your expectations. It sounds contradictory but not. You can enjoy excitement of hitting jackpot by buying a lottery. Yet, not so much being disappointed by not hitting it.

"Life is to get what you want". Why not expect the best for you? And be detached from the outcome.