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In yesterday's Abraham video, she says, "selfishness is a vibrational alignment with self". Ayn Rand says the same thing by introducing the definition of the word, "selfishness is concerned with one's own interest".
The word selfishness is used as a synonym of evil as Rand pointed out. We somehow try to please other people. Helping others is regarded a good thing. The problem is that most of the time, they don't help themself yet. So, they really cannot help other people.
Not only there is nothing wrong with being selfish, but also you need to be selfish. You are the one who is responsible for your personal development. And the developed version of you can do what you want to do.